Why is it we can't choose our family?
Okay so I guess my mom went into the hospital last night. My father had been trying to get ahold of me. Not sure which numbers he was trying but I was home. Anyhow, this morning I have a message from him that he called about 6:00 am. So I immediatly call him back. He tells me my mom is really sick with ehr gall bladder being full of stones and her bowels were not working and backed up into the rest of her organs. So I say well okay then I will pack up the kids and come. He has the nerve to tell me to either wait or not bother because my sister was coming. We all know how well my sister and I get along. So I say I will just rent a hotel room and we can avoid one another. You wold think that would work. Well that isn't good enough. Okay well then I I just won't go. Well then my DH lectures me on how I need to be there. So again I go back to that I will rent a hotel. The arguing back and forth as to what I am going to do just proceeds on and on. So I say well if you want me there so bad tell her not to come. Well he can't do that heaven forbid. So what the hell am I supposed to do. I am not going to wait five days until she is gone and they don't need me. So either they need me there or they don't I swear why does my sister have to be such a bitch that I have to deal with this now. I mean I was just really sick but no one can remember that and did anyone come to help. nope that is usually the way it is. They all get sick and I am expected to run right away. I get sick and they are all too busy to help. Okay I just needed to rant. Think I will take the kids to swim for awhile while I mull over my choices.
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So sorry Amy, I will pray for you and your situation!! Wish there was something I could do!!
Sorry you're dealing with this. I know what a pain in the butt families can be. You should put aside everyone's feeling but your own...do you want to be there? Do you feel like you should or need to be there? If so, then go. Who cares about your sister.
I hope your mom's alright! I be thinking about you girl!
We already talked, just so you know I am here if you need me.
Amy you should be there no matter if your sister is there, or that your dad said not to worry about coming. Screw that! I would go the gallblatter is NOT something you mess with both of my parents and problems with theirs and had them removed. I hope things get better for you dear.. you sure have so much on your plate.
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