Fun Sucker
Okay I am sure you are all wondering what my title could be all about, LOL. Well I know everyone has at least ONE in their life. You know the person who when they walk in a room all of a sudden it is like one giant vaccuum and they begin to start sucking ALL the fun right out! Well in my case I am married to that person. Now here is the deal, almost 14 years ago he was not like that. We would always have so much fun together. In fact it iahs just been in the past couple of years this has started to happen. But lately he has become that big heavy duty vac that you pull in for the really big messes. Yeah he has become THAT kind of a FUN SUCKER!!!! So yesterday was the fourth of July and because he had to be up early for work we couldn't go to the fireworks session at the culbhouse. So I bought some so at least the kids could have some sort of Fourth of July. Well what does he do but decide while it is still LIGHT outside we need to do them right then and there because he has to go to bed. You know give me a break the kids are only young for a short time. Why do we have to do them while it is still light outside. Would it have killed him to stay up a bit late for one night just for them. So I was so angry I wouldn't even go out with them. I have no photos for the fourth of July. Yes scrapping sin number 1! So I decide that since we only have a couple more weeks left until the kids go back to school that I am going to plan a camping trip for this weekend. ALl he has done is complain and grumble and we aren't even there yet. Once again I am sure he will SUCK all the fun out of that trip. Then to top it off he thinks it is okay for me to go get the site, set everything up, and then have him come up late so he can play softball. Give me a break your team sucks, you never win, they aren't gonna miss you, I think you can miss one stinkin' game. Okay I just really needed to rant cause it is really playing a number on me lately and I am not sure I can deal much more with it. Anyone else have one of those in their life, LOL?
Yep have one of those in my life too, although I have to admitt that from time to time I am guilty of doing it myself.
Amy, poor friend, let's put our hubbies TOGETHER! and let them suck the fun out of EACH OTHERS lives ... mine has been the same way!
Too bad you and I and the kids couldn't meet half-way (middle of the continental US somewhere) and just have a ball without those "fun suckers"
Hang in there, girlfriend!!
I have one of those...I am thinking about trading him in for a newer model...one that doesn't come with a remote control and a hockey puck!!! I have come to the conclusion that I HAVE to build my own fun...if he wants to be part of it, so be it. If he wants to be a party pooper, well he can do it alone! I understand where you are coming from...believe me sister!
Awww Amy, I'm sorry! Maybe you should just load the kids up and drive up the coast into Oregon, I would meet you there!!
My Dh is not this way, but I do have friends that are like this!!
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